The difference between liking and noticing

“I like it” is an excellent place to begin and a limited place to stop. It tells us that something has happened, but not what. Is it the proportion? The unexpected combination? The memory it brings back? Learning to answer those questions turns a preference into something we can examine and, eventually, use.

Taste is often presented as a possession: an instinct some people have and other people need to buy access to. That story is convenient for anyone selling a shortcut. It is less useful for someone who wants to make, choose, or understand things with greater confidence.

Another way to think about taste is as a practice of sustained comparison. Look at two things that solve a similar problem differently. Notice the trade-offs. Return to something after your first response has faded. The point is not to arrive at a universally correct judgment. It is to become more precise about your own.

Give your preferences a little resistance

A collection made only of things we instantly enjoy can become a very comfortable room with no doors. Seek out work that leaves you uncertain, not because difficulty automatically means quality, but because uncertainty asks you to articulate a response. A piece may become more interesting with attention. It may also remain unconvincing. Both outcomes are useful.

Try describing an object without naming its brand, price, or category. What does it do? How does it organize attention? What does it ask of the person using it? Removing the social shorthand can reveal which part of your response belongs to the object and which part belongs to what you know about it.

Context still matters. A poster on a street has a different task from an image in a book. A garment for working has different demands from a garment for ceremony. Judging everything by the same visual preferences can make a confident eye surprisingly incurious. Good taste may include recognizing that your favorite answer is wrong for this particular question.

A notebook beats a wishlist

A small habit can make this concrete. Choose something you encounter during an ordinary day and write three sentences about it: one observation, one interpretation, and one question. For a sign, the observation might concern its spacing. The interpretation might be that it feels hurried. The question might be whether that urgency helps it do its job.

Keep those categories separate. An interpretation is not a fact simply because it feels immediate. The exercise is valuable because it makes that distinction visible. Over time, you may notice recurring concerns: how things age, how color changes a room, how a sentence sets a pace. Those concerns can become a vocabulary for your own work.

You can also revisit a past judgment without treating the revision as a defeat. Something once dismissed may become generous; something once adored may become thin. A changing preference can be evidence of attention rather than a failure of consistency. Taste that cannot change risks becoming a uniform.

None of this requires buying better objects or collecting more prestigious references. A street corner, a library shelf, an ordinary meal, or a conversation can supply material. The practice is to notice, compare, and stay curious long enough to move beyond the first available opinion. Taste becomes useful when it helps us encounter more of the world, rather than merely announcing which part of it we think we belong to.

A note on this story

This is an original opinion essay, not reported news. Examples are illustrative. Read our editorial approach.